Today we are thinking of someone very special. The founder of this site (and our company) died one year ago today. We are spending the day remembering, but the day feels heavy. We miss Rich. We wish he was here instead of us sitting here remembering him, searching our emails for messages we received from him, and passing around photos. We are telling the funny stories, and the sad stories. I remember afternoons in NYC with him after a client meeting (though I won't say what we were doing!). I remember watching movies with him on his couch one night. I remember when he sent the entire staff, and their significant others, to see Monty Python and the Holy Grail on Broadway. I remember how he made me think, how curious he was about the world and life, and how strongly he communicated his opinions!
So, as with most people we miss when they're gone, we start to think of others in our life we've lost. I remember my grandmother and grandfather. When my grandmother passed away my grandfather was, of course, devastated. To make the anniversaries of her death less of a day of mourning, and more of a day of celebrating he announced that every anniversary of her "death" would be a birthday in heaven. The first anniversary was her First Birthday in Heaven. Then her Second Birthday in Heaven. He imagined how wonderful it was for her there, in heaven. Because he loved her so much, where she was (paradise) was much more important on that day than where he was (sad to be without her).
You may or may not be helped by thinking about a "heaven," but we can all find it in our hearts to celebrate life, even after someone's gone. They will forever be a part of YOU, of your life's story, and of your now and future as you have been blessed with knowing—and loving—them. I would love to think people could be happy when they think about me after I'm gone. And I'm going to find a way to do that for my friend Rich today. Happy First Birthday in Heaven, Rich.




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